I hope you'll give it a try. All of the people talking at once can be really dizzying. I feel like my fingers are never fast enough to respond, these ol Milotic fins are clumsy. But you don't have to participate in the chat room-like format to use Discord. You don't even have to join the pokecommunity server if you don't want to it. You can just talk to a friend privately like we are doing now. That is usually what I do. Private messages fit me more.
I understand if it is not for you. It was intimidating to me too, but then when I realized that you could seperate yourself from the hustle and bustle, and just talk privately to a friend I grew to love it.
If you do try, well you know where to find me. I'm going to miss you very much. Sad to see you go!! You're such a pillar of the community and cool friend. You are big part of why PC is a fun, active place.
But if you are no longer interestested in pokemon than I hope you have a good time doing the things you do love. Neverland's doors will always be open to you here if you change your mind.
*teddiursa hug*
-Sam