worst way that you have been dumped?

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    or what was the worst way that you have dumped someone?

    please don't post if you cannot relate to either situation you can get that +1 postcount elsewhere
     
    i've never been dumped in a serious relationship, but i had someone i was talking to once just completely stop responding to me. i got the hint and unfollowed them on all my social media, but they weirdly continued to follow me. Anyway this went on for 7-8 months until they randomly texted me and we ended up seeing each other again. Now they're back to not talking to me, but the difference is the first time it happened i blamed myself and wondered for so long whereas this time i realize it's truly them and not me. i got my closure and made my peace the second time around so as of now i just wish them the best and hope i dont hear from them again.

    another time i was talking to someone and eventually i could tell something was up. so i texted him asking what was wrong, and he told me this long personal story which we talked about. after we were done talking about it i said to him, "so i can be sure, do you still want to keep seeing each other." and he said yes. anyway time goes by and i ask to see him one day and i get this tip toe response as to why he can't. so at this point it's even more obvious to me that he doesn't want to see me anymore, but it was pissing me off that he couldn't just say its over and be an adult about it. so more time goes by, we're talking less and less, and then one day i just said to him, "you know if you didn't want to be my friend or hang out anymore i really wish you would have just said it." and to my surprise he actually responded saying he's just so busy and blah balh balh. But after making that excuse we never spoke again. we had each other on snap chat so i deleted him, but he still watches my snap stories everyday???

    basically i attract men who can't just end things properly. a word of advice to everyone, no matter how scared you are to tell someone it's over or maybe you just don't want to hurt the other person... you should just tell them the truth and move on. not saying anything just makes you look like a child and hurts the other person more
     
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    one time i was dating someone for like, almost 4 months but i found out he had been talking to someone else for like a month and he wanted a poly relationship but i said no, so he got mad at me and like a couple weeks later he ended up dating the same guy he cheated on me with. and it was on my birthday too. apparently they're still dating now, and it's disgusting. i have them both blocked though cause his boyfriend is an ass and harassed me for no reason.
     
    She cheated on me then left me for that person :<
     
    Wasn't the dumpee, but I remember I had dumped someone after they had picked me up from camp one time. Back in high school - I want to say between my Junior-Senior years - I went to a week long camp where my girlfriend at the time dropped me off at. Long story short, I discovered some things about her that changed my perspective all together which when it came for her to pick me up I ended up dumping her in the car ride home...which to my mistake, was an hour and a half long ride back. We basically argued the whole way back.

    Oh yeah, and she fainted in my garage when I basically put my foot down that we were never getting back together. So that was an interesting day haha.
     
    Well let's see...I've been "dumped" in several awful ways. Seems like the people I fall for tend to be pretty unwilling to end it cleanly.

    So I've been dumped by text message. I've been dumped without being told I was dumped at all, usually with various degrees of final confrontation and finding out either by asking or by simply finding out they were cheating on me. I've been dumped on my birthday of all days to be dumped. I've been dumped on Christmas. I've been dumped on Valentines Day.

    I think the few partners of romantic interest I've had who dumped me honestly and with compassion and care for my feelings actually turned out to be some of the best friends I have, which ironically, they were before the romance began.
     
    had someone dump me almost a year ago via them 'vanishing' on me without any warning or a goodbye. they just decided not to talk to me anymore for unknown reasons. we'd never fought before and our only actual disagreement ever was brief.. so i still don't know what actually happened between us to this day. i perceived our relationship as extremely ideal, and from my communicated understanding my partner felt the same. it's probably my fault, whatever the problem was in the end. i'm still not over it.. they were/are very important to me, but as you can see something just wasn't right i guess. i understand the meaning behind "the one that got away" as a result of this experience.

    i've had my share of really bad breakups but this one has stuck with me very persistently.. annoyingly so.

    .. probably because i still have to come to terms with the fact that i will most likely never learn what happened.
     
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    Not exactly the worst "way" I've been dumped but definitely the worst dumping experience I've had. The most serious relationship I've ever had, everything seemed great for the most part and we were coming up on two years and then out of nowhere I got dumped without ever receiving an actual explanation as to why.

    The worst way was a person who basically just vanished from my life.

    The worst way I dumped someone was essentially "I think you're great but my best mate still likes you (they had been dating prior to that) and won't leave me alone and I can't take it any more." We later got back together and then she ended up dumping me, so I guess we're even. Weirdly these days she's one of my closest friends xD
     
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