What's the RIGHT Way to Ask Someone to Hangout?

Distortion World

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    So besides the odd time where SOMEONE ELSE has asked me, I really haven't "hanged" out all that much with any new people lately.

    I really want to, but whenever I try, I stutter and give up.

    Plus, i don't even know what to do with someone because the biggest reason is NO ONE at my school likes Pokemon, and pretty much every anime based game out there.

    So yeah, I need help here 'cuz I'm dying to ask but i need help.

    PLEASE HELP!!!!!! XD
     
    "Hey... Um... Do you mind if I hang out with you for a bit?" is the Jolene way.

    And after that, you probably should just do what guys do. From what I've seen, guys basically just sit around all day making offensive jokes about each other that they copied from Family Guy.
     
    spacecub said:
    "Hey we should hang out" would be my attempt
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    This sounds reasonable enough.

    Also: Hey, whatcha doin? Hey, wanna hang out sometime? are noteworthy attempts that have created many-a-friendship.

    And after that, you probably should just do what guys do. From what I've seen, guys basically just sit around all day making offensive jokes about each other that they copied from Family Guy.
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    Ahem! We quote other shows too ya' know. =P
     
    "Hey, we should hang out today."

    "Hey, let's hang out."

    "Yo, you doing anything today? Wanna hang out?"

    Commence with sports/video games/taking over the city/having an existential conversation/whatever.
     
    I say " Hey do you want to hang out sometime soon? "
     
    Jolene said:
    From what I've seen, guys basically just sit around all day making offensive jokes about each other that they copied from Family Guy.
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    That's the most accurate why I could ever describe it. xD

    Oh, and as far as hanging out with someone; it's probably the simplest thing ever. The mall = best place to chill. Just go up to someone and be like, "Hey, you wanna chill at the mall this (insert day here.)?" that's what i do. :p
     
    Nemaru said:
    That's the most accurate why I could ever describe it. xD

    Oh, and as far as hanging out with someone; it's probably the simplest thing ever. The mall = best place to chill. Just go up to someone and be like, "Hey, you wanna chill at the mall this (insert day here.)?" that's what i do. :p
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    PERFECT! Thats the best place to hangout! Thank you! :D
     
    Jolene said:
    "Hey... Um... Do you mind if I hang out with you for a bit?" is the Jolene way.

    And after that, you probably should just do what guys do. From what I've seen, guys basically just sit around all day making offensive jokes about each other that they copied from Family Guy.
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    You obviously haven't met many guys then.

    I'm pretty shy, and don't usually take the initiative when asking to hang out or whatever. But the best way is man up and ask. The worst they could do is say no. You are really fretting over nothing.

    I mean, if it is your friend, you shouldn't really be nervous around them. If it is a stranger, then you shouldn't be asking to hang out with them any way.


    And, messaging him now would be good. But I'm guessing that it doesn't really matter that much. He will get the message either way.
     
    Give him some time to reply.

    Though what I usually do when asking someone if they want hang out is ask them a simple question. For example "Hey, what's up?" or "I've seen you around before. What's up?". Those kind of questions usually storm up a conversation and then afterward, you could ask them if they want to hang out sometime. Those are just my two cents on what to do however.
     
    Skarmory said:
    :( he didn't reply back....
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    Maybe he's straight. I don't think I would like being asked out on a date to the mall by some dude I hardly know.

    Ok, that's a lie, I would like it, but still.
     
    Well I guess the first step would be to just be yourself you know, don't try to act all cool and manly saying "yo dude, wanna chill later?" there's nothing really wrong by just being yourself and if accepts you as who you are then there's no problem.

    The hard part is trying to get them to like anime based games, heh I conviced my friend to play naruto gekittou ninja taisen ex3 cause he doesn't like many fighting games and he loved it. I'm pretty sure everyone's watched dragonball when they grew up so talk something about it with him.

    I think asking him to go to the mall seems weird when you say it in front of his face, save the mall for another day cause you guys have to get to know each other first. XD
     
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