Change your life

[Sheep]

Imagine that, right now, you have the ability to make one change to your life. This can be either big or small.

What change would you make?

 

[Corrin]

My mom and I find an apartment we can afford and can move in.
We live too far from anything out here.

 

[Delta Crowned Sword]

I want to bring change in my attitude and mindset, as they are the reasons which prevent me from achieving what I want. Once I had got positive and growing attitude, I could overcome all of my shortcomings.

 

[Lavender]

Make myself good at learning stuff, things never stick in my head when I do school.

 

[Palamon]

Our money situation to at least be able to afford to pay the bills.

 

[Sake-Kun]

If I could go back to that day when in my own worst moment I gave into my own dissociative selves and gave away faith in the world, to resist the temptation, I would.

But deep down, I know that it likely was inevitable anyway. It's easy to say in hindsight what you think you should have done and whisper what-ifs to yourself, but ultimately it is better to accept your lot in life and move on than be perpetually stuck in the shadows of the past.

 

[professor plum]

I would eliminate any/all of my credit card debt.

 

[Nah]

Top 2 things would be a) have a couple hundred million USD drop into my bank account or b) finally have a feminine body

 

[Zeostar]

Not much. I'm young, and I admit, what I want to change currently is a lack of drive to do it. There's nothing mystical that I couldn't take accountability and fix myself. I also think all major events have led me to this point.

I guess the one regret I have that can't be fixed is messing things up with my closest friend. Someday I would like to make repentance for being ignorant. It's rare to have a friendship that great, and I took it for granted. We are no longer on speaking terms.

Regret is a demon to carry on the shoulders.

 

[_confused_piplup_]

The time I used to waste in high school, I'd do something more useful than being lazy all day. And also actually use it to understand what I wanted to do in life. I'd make some other changes too.

 

[Lapis_Laz95]

i wish i could get my own house. im sick of renting and horrible landlords

 

[Crystal Berry]

I wish I cared more about my future. Today I live much differently than I did 10 years ago. I eat healthier, I exercise a lot more and I'm a lot more outgoing in person too.

 

[Harmonie]

I wish I had not been stuck in my "trauma bubble" for so many years post-high school. I wish I had applied myself to a college degree for a career instead of just for fun. Basically - I wish I had lived for the future, not the moment.

Under normal circumstances I might be less bothered by my past and just have to deal with it, but instead I'm under circumstances where I'm moving to a much more expensive state because of the political climate and my well-being. I'm also scared for the country as a whole. Yet because I didn't apply myself to a degree for a good career, I'm not desirable to other, safer countries.

Hopefully they will be defeated in November and I can breathe a sigh of relief and move on with my life, but I'm scared things might not go that way and I wouldn't know what to do...

 

[mikey]

Similar to what Lapis said - would love to be able to have my own home and stop renting. Housing overall is just so outrageously expensive.

 

[Venonat in Space]

If I can just wish to get rid of my autism, then I feel everything else I would wish for after that would be easier naturally. Does that make sense?

 

[Setsuna]

Okay, yes, the boring cheap answer is "I want a million bucks" but... the answer I'm going to give is "I want a million bucks". Or ten million, whatever, I'm open to bargain. Just make it a lot, and make it come in regularly.
Stuff's not going great right now and financial security is something I've been wanting for the past few years. Knowing I won't have to worry about being broke would give me a lot of peace of mind and allow me to do things more confidently. I don't want money to splurge or live a frivolous life, I just wanna live in security.

If we're talking strictly about changing past events, there are a few things I would've done back home before I made the decision to move out. I feel like things nowadays would be a lot easier if I didn't jump the gun and if I let myself actually take care of the things I needed to do instead of just doing one thing and telling myself "I'll be able to do the rest later, it'll work out!". I wish I could say that I'm currently a college graduate instead of actually being here looking into the process of applying in the first place.